Single. Everyone experienced being single before. Some of you are single right now and some of you are not. Others hate being single while others don’t.
But how can you hate being single and not love it? Seriously. You can be more independent and more carefree as though you have no care in the world (or maybe just someone or anyone). And if you hate being single, there’s a lot of reasons why you should enjoy it while you are.
Here are some reasons:
1. You can have more time for yourself
Come on. Every girl want time for themselves. Without the boyfriend being around you all the time, you can have that. You’ll have more time to think, reflect, decide and be silly. It’s the ultimate ‘alone time’. You can just jump in bed without you pants and watch movies. Or you can go out and know more people.
2. You can doll yourself up
I’m not sure if this applies to everyone. But when you’re single, you’re free to wear any kinds of clothes or fashion lines that you want. No one would be there to tell you to go and change your clothes just because they don’t like it despite the fact that you look hot in it and you took a lot of time to dress up. You’re free to experiment on what kind of clothes would look good and wouldn’t look good on you. Bravo! You might even find out that you look sexy as hell in a dress.
3. You can spend more time to fix yourself up
You have to attend a party at 7, it’s only 6:30 and you’re boyfriend is already telling you that it’s time to leave but you haven’t fixed your make up yet. Boom! Yeah. I know. You can cross it out but other people experience this. You have less time to make yourself pretty. And once you feel insecure and he notices, he’d end up saying ‘You don’t need to put make up on. Your smile is the best make up.’ which would make you less anxious (but how sure are you that he’s telling the truth?) Come on. Wake up. Doesn’t it feel great to come out of your home looking the best that you can even though it’s just with blush, lipstick, mascara and some eyeliner.
4. You don’t really have to worry about time
This is the one I like most. No one would be around to always remind you about the time or trying to make you go and hurry up. Being single means that you hold your time in your hands and you can do whatever you want with it. Either you decide to become fashionably late in a party or really early in a concert.
5. Girl time!
Admit it. When you were in a relationship, you spend almost all you time with your significant other which results to neglecting your friends which make them feel unimportant. It always happen. But being single means that you have girl time. You can spend time with your friends and catch up with that things that you missed when you weren’t with them. You can go get your nails done together or have a slumber party. Come on. Who needs a cute guy when you have a whole gang that loves you.
6. You can decide what happens on your Friday night
It’s friday night. You can decide what you want to do. You can just ball up under your bed covers, read a book, watch movies or go out partying with you girls even though you might end up in the wrong side of bed (if you know what I mean) But still, go out partying on Friday night and meet a cute guy that makes you feel butterflies in your stomach then have a Saturday brunch with him. It’s up to you on what happens in between.
7. You have time for your hobbies and discover new things about yourself
Oh look! You’re great in archery! You’re a diva! You have time to discover yourself. You have time to develop the skills that you have and focus on the things that makes you happy.
8. You can treat yourself anytime
Being single means that you can save more money. How, you won’t feel that need to buy a gift for someone for a certain occasion unless it’s someone’s birthday. Having more money in your wallet, you can treat yourself. Be it a day in a spa or a shopping spree.
9. You can meet new people
Nobody would be there to hold you back. You can meet more people and socialize with them much longer. You have the time to get to know each other and become really good friends. Also, he might be your ‘future boyfriend’
10. You can hang out with all your guys friends
Tell me the truth. We all have guy friends that we’re close with and once we’re taken, you have less time with them. And sometimes, you never spend time with them because your significant other gets jealous and possessive. Being single, nobody would hold you back from hanging out with them but don’t ever forget that you’re a girl and they’re guys.
Just an addition.
11. Beyonce wrote a song for us
You know what it is 😉
Come on. Don’t hate couples. Okay? 😀